In a world where
appearance is everything and we thrive off sexual and physical attraction, does
there come a point where we too heavily discount what else might be truly
important? We hear people say so often that “It’s what is on the inside that
counts”. But, how often to we get that opportunity to discover it? How often
are people denied the opportunity to shine as a result of the judgments and
assumptions passed on them?
Think about a man
or woman covered in tattoos, or a Muslim woman covered from head to toe for her
religion - How many times in their life would you guess that they have been
incorrectly judged or put into a stereotypical category society creates?
There have been
some unlikely changes in perception as a result of people like the late Steve
Jobs, whom in school was bullied and picked on for being a nerd and weird. It
has generated a new form of sayings that I imagine many of us will hope to have
a positive impact on our judgments, for example, “Be nice to the nerd at
school, as they will one day be your boss.”
Imagine for just a
minute, online dating with no profile pictures or physical description… it is
seems a little far-fetched. A friend of mine has created an online dating
website that has somewhat of an interesting twist and that I believe still
holds the excitement of cyber world attraction whilst getting to know someone
without initial attraction (http://7pmanywhere.com).
I am a firm
believer of the importance of physical attraction to create a lasting a
sustainable relationship. However, I am also a firm believer that one must get
to know another more than by a glance to discover that physical attraction and
that there is more involved.
It begs me to ask
the question, where does attraction really stem from? As I think back to
popular boys and girls in school, the men and women in social groups who
attract a lot of attention and even some reality TV series characters, I can’t
help but notice the front runners are not always the best looking on ground.
So, what makes them so attractive? Is it charisma? Is it attitude and
personality? Is it their aura and that little something about them that draws
you to them?
We are able to see
this because we have allowed them the opportunity and have gotten to know them
for who they are.
What are you
attracted to? What makes someone attractive in your eyes? If you came across a
physically beautiful person, who possessed immense low self-esteem and
insecurity – how long would you find them attractive? The same goes with that
really good-looking person who is arrogant beyond their right – how long would
you find them attractive?
Samantha K
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Most dating sites that I have tried have been quite disappointing. They are ok for a laugh but not if you really are looking for something. So I searched for dating website for real relationship and I found this globogirls.com and it was really good, it is a good way to see what is out there. There are a lot of different people in different countries, but some good ones too. The good thing about it is that it's totally secure because they have the feature of video chatting with these girls so you'll not share your personal contacts unless you're 100% sure , One thing that I really liked was the tips on how to avoid scam and fraud.
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